“No, no, no, no, no, oh God, no.”
January 7, 2025“No, no, no, no, no, oh God,
no.”
This phrase lets the
other person know how surprised and painful it is to hear this news and that
their experience of shock, disbelief and grief is being
experienced in you too,” Andrea Dindinger, M.A., a licensed
marriage and family therapist in
San Francisco.
says. “And that they are not alone. So much of expressing empathy is
communicating that they are not alone.”
Dindinger emphasizes
that expressing empathy involves acknowledging the other person’s emotional
state and communicating that they are not alone in their experience. This
applies powerfully in situations of grief, shock, and disbelief.
A well-executed
professional headshot can convey a similar sense of connection and shared
understanding. Here’s how:
- Authenticity: A genuine
smile, a warm gaze, and a relaxed posture in a headshot can communicate
authenticity and approachability. This subtle message tells the viewer,
“I am a real person, and I understand your needs and concerns.” - Confidence: A confident
expression and professional attire can convey competence and reliability.
This reassures the viewer that they are in capable hands and that they are
not alone in their professional pursuits. - Connection: The
photographer’s skill in capturing the individual’s unique personality and
charisma can create a sense of connection with the viewer. This subtle
empathy helps build rapport and trust, conveying the message, “I
understand who you are, and I value your unique perspective.”
In
essence:
Just as Dindinger
suggests that empathy involves acknowledging the other person’s emotional
state, a professional headshot can acknowledge the viewer’s need for
connection, trust, and understanding. By conveying authenticity, confidence,
and a sense of shared humanity, the headshot can subtly communicate, “You
are not alone in your professional journey.”